yeah, my spouse's mother had to point out to FinAid that the last known address of spouse's father was a county jail and she had no idea what had happened since, could they PLEASE stop asking her for her ex's financial info?

(my mother ended up giving my spouse a personal loan so he could finish college. The alumni association calls us every now and then and I point out that if alma mater wanted us to donate maybe they shouldn't've fucked over spouse when he was an impoverished child.)