Look, lady, polyamory can be a thing, but you seem to want monogamy, and he... Doesn't.
If you want to set a groundrule and see if he can stick to it, which I doubt, ok. If you want to look into polyamory and continue the marriage, also ok. But don't let his lack of ethics (and/or addictive behavior) drag you down with him.
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Look, lady, polyamory can be a thing, but you seem to want monogamy, and he... Doesn't.
If you want to set a groundrule and see if he can stick to it, which I doubt, ok. If you want to look into polyamory and continue the marriage, also ok. But don't let his lack of ethics (and/or addictive behavior) drag you down with him.