Being a home care aide is a very hard job. I'm Caribbean American and many of the ladies from my home church did that work, and then I did admin work for a home health care agency (ugh) and talked to people from across the African diaspora. So, yeah, I collected quite a few stories. You sound like the kind of client people praised to the skies and envied each other for having. Knowing you I am unsurprised. :)