That sounds utterly miserable (and I hope your uncle at least admitted maybe your mother had a point).

I'm glad your other grandmother got along better with her caretakers. I talked to quite a few people from my home community about working in home health care, and one aspect this discussion reminded me of is that when one doesn't know if one will have to deal long term with someone being terrible as part of one's job, finding a client who is sweet natured and not cruel and racist is very very heartening.