LIKE. Maybe this guy needs to talk to a therapist! Lots of guys might have these feelings that are at odds with their beliefs, want to get past them, and be trying to figure it out! There's an indictment in there of our fucked up culture and this guy is trying to get past it! Maybe after sorting his feelings with a therapist he might be able to have a conversation with his girlfriend! But just -- what the hell is that answer. That answer is basically "nah just go ahead and make your girlfriend your emotional dumping ground" and I hope the guy is aware enough not to take the advice because good god.