For the parents: Your kid's bathroom habits haven't been any of your business since they started wiping their own butt. It is currently the parents' job to support their kid in whatever way that kid needs and to deal with their own discomfort in private, away from the kid.
Also for the parents: If the grands are as awful as is being implied, well: you tell them straight up that if they say one word about the kid's bathroom choices then the visit ends. The grands can get on board with LGBTQ+ acceptance or they can lose access to the family until they do.
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Also for the parents: If the grands are as awful as is being implied, well: you tell them straight up that if they say one word about the kid's bathroom choices then the visit ends. The grands can get on board with LGBTQ+ acceptance or they can lose access to the family until they do.