I feel for the children. And I do feel that they will get treated different and it won't be their fault and it will still hurt. The hurt will embed itself long before they can understand why Aunt Cindy's kids get to see Grandma on Christmas Day and they have to wait until the 26th. They Aunt Cindy's kids get to stay with grandma on their birthday but they can't even though they are older and it is the same day and they used to but since little Timmy was born no more.
My dad had an affair and left my mum. His mum treated me different from that moment on. I was now part of that whole embarrassment. She chose to treat me differently from my acceptable cousins. So the grandparent has a choice here and I think Alison is aware of it though going about it the wrong way.
Are you going to take the punishment into the next generation or are you going to be the adult here?
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I feel for the children. And I do feel that they will get treated different and it won't be their fault and it will still hurt. The hurt will embed itself long before they can understand why Aunt Cindy's kids get to see Grandma on Christmas Day and they have to wait until the 26th. They Aunt Cindy's kids get to stay with grandma on their birthday but they can't even though they are older and it is the same day and they used to but since little Timmy was born no more.
My dad had an affair and left my mum. His mum treated me different from that moment on. I was now part of that whole embarrassment. She chose to treat me differently from my acceptable cousins. So the grandparent has a choice here and I think Alison is aware of it though going about it the wrong way.
Are you going to take the punishment into the next generation or are you going to be the adult here?