I'm with you, I am absolutely, 9 times out of 10, tell the person.
This one? GIANT RED FLAG NOPE. Do not tell anyone, get out from under this person's supervision, get tested (just in case, I mean, the boss's husband could be squeaky clean protection everywhere kind of person and I'd still get tested because one lie could be more lies), and ..... well, not the slightly joking drink to forget but definitely don't be more than polite and civil to the person if you see them out in the public.
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I'm with you, I am absolutely, 9 times out of 10, tell the person.
This one? GIANT RED FLAG NOPE. Do not tell anyone, get out from under this person's supervision, get tested (just in case, I mean, the boss's husband could be squeaky clean protection everywhere kind of person and I'd still get tested because one lie could be more lies), and ..... well, not the slightly joking drink to forget but definitely don't be more than polite and civil to the person if you see them out in the public.
Oooo boy, what an awful mess to be in.