This.

I mean being 'hard line' or not about cutting off bigoted family is not a one-size-fits all proposition: can't work for everyone, but the flipside of that is that quietly and subtly preserving the peace by just ghosting them most of the time as Amy seems to be suggesting here definitely won't work for everyone either. It's a tradeoff and it all depends on the individual situation and what the individual person wants out of it and is willing to put up with.