He sounds controlling and totally unwilling to compromise. She basically has to beg to be allowed out. I am not convinced that this isn't more about controlling her than covid.
It is not abuse to say
"I need you to do everything in your power not to bring home a virus that could kill me or seriously and permanently disable me, and if you can't agree to that, one of us needs to move out."
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He sounds controlling and totally unwilling to compromise. She basically has to beg to be allowed out. I am not convinced that this isn't more about controlling her than covid.
It is not abuse to say
"I need you to do everything in your power not to bring home a virus that could kill me or seriously and permanently disable me, and if you can't agree to that, one of us needs to move out."