It's hard even to know where to start. Other than "therapy. So much therapy, right now. Couples AND solo, because the part where you haven't said anything etc indicates a fairly pathological lack of ability to communicate needs that is probably messing up quite a bit of your life, even apart from this."

(Not so much because therapy is "magic wand" as everything about this letter says to me the need of a hopefully-trained, hopefully-impartial observer/mediator/translator because, like. That's just . . . *waves hands at it*)

But yeah. Oigh.