nobody should feel obligated to perform any sex act on anybody
Absolutely. I hope it was clear from my response that this absolutely truth underpins it.
I also feel like people need to stop with this identity policing shit and stop saying someone is a "fake" whatever because of certain unwritten rules about gender/sexual orientation performativity. For fuck's sake. We get enough judgmental crap from non-LGBT people, this thing we have with eating our own (hurr) needs to fucking stop already.
Re: somewhat TMI, sorry
Absolutely. I hope it was clear from my response that this absolutely truth underpins it.
I also feel like people need to stop with this identity policing shit and stop saying someone is a "fake" whatever because of certain unwritten rules about gender/sexual orientation performativity. For fuck's sake. We get enough judgmental crap from non-LGBT people, this thing we have with eating our own (hurr) needs to fucking stop already.
A-fucking-men.