"My three daughters come and always bring along their friends."
THEIR friends. Do none of the LWs friends attend?
"I know that getting together is important to my daughters."
Is it not important to the LW?
"I know that not having a lovely Seder will make me sad."
LW needs to think about why having a lovely Seder makes them happy. Is it the people? (sounds like it isn't) Is it being able to host a meal? (would hosting ANY meal give them the same joy?) Is it the ritual of the event? Something else?
Either way, it sounds like the LW needs their daughters to step up and host a seder even if its just the upcoming one. If it's important to THEM and its THEIR friends... and once LW figures out why they enjoy the Seder they can maybe make the decision whether or not to host it in the future and who should be invited.
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THEIR friends. Do none of the LWs friends attend?
"I know that getting together is important to my daughters."
Is it not important to the LW?
"I know that not having a lovely Seder will make me sad."
LW needs to think about why having a lovely Seder makes them happy. Is it the people? (sounds like it isn't) Is it being able to host a meal? (would hosting ANY meal give them the same joy?) Is it the ritual of the event? Something else?
Either way, it sounds like the LW needs their daughters to step up and host a seder even if its just the upcoming one. If it's important to THEM and its THEIR friends... and once LW figures out why they enjoy the Seder they can maybe make the decision whether or not to host it in the future and who should be invited.