I will amend this a little. Personally I was the one who did all the cooking. For 13 years I did all the cooking and the emotional labor around it. When my partner quit their job and I was the only one working.. one day I came home and they ordered dinner from me. When I knew they had been home all day. I let myself calm down for about a day before I announced they would be learning to cook and that I would no longer be in charge of it by myself. It has been 3 years, no one has died, and my partner now cooks 2-4 times a week depending on the week.