No, I can say that! (-: I'm sticking to my "clueless at the least", because if the friend has no idea if "the LW is super into weddings", then she's sharing every damned little detail with LW because she's conveniently there and not because she thinks LW would simply looooove hearing every detail of Wedding Madness--I call that being a user, and a total bore, and so not worth the LW being so hurt over. (My predisposition: if someone is feeling left out and utterly alone, I am their champion--I can't help it--I sucked at team sports and musical chairs as a child.) But I agree the friend has no idea how much the LW is feeling hurt, probably. Unless the friend is totally savvy and an uber-sadist having the time of her life--you never know.