I stopped speaking to two family members who told me my non-bio child wouldn't be their relative. One apologized, and we're back on speaking terms. The other hasn't, and we're not. It's not just for my sake—it's for my kid's sake. I will not have my child exposed to such views.

Cut them off and don't look back, LW. I hope you have a marvelous, loving relationship with your child and that they grow up to appreciate that you're protecting them from the hateful, hurtful people who happen to be related to your husband by blood.