I put it all on the line fighting for our love, but she didn't, after her parents broke her phone, threatened to send her to a psych ward and left her locked up in her house.

What happened to LW was bad, but she does not get to claim that her ex didn't "put it all on the line." The ex-girlfiend clearly put a great deal on the line, and LW's desire for closure three years after the fact isn't going to help. It's time to put the relationship in the Important Memories box and move on.

I have to agree with everyone else here. Amy was not the best columnist for this letter.