Yeah, this was my original thought. I mean, all the other smack down the OP thoughts occurred after that, but, like, I have an acquaintance who is (AFAIK) a straight woman who lives with, sleeps in the same bed as, shares a business with, and foster parents ~8 teenagers with her best friend/person I would call a queerplatonic partner, who is a gay dude. It's not like "he's not sexually attracted to women!" is an inherent disqualifier for being married to a woman--happily married, even.