Yep. And for the love of god, do not continue having children with this man. Now is the time to see to birth control in as ironclad as possible a way until you are safely divorced and separated from him. (I don't know if that second kid was planned or not, or how much control she has over her own fertility, or what, but getting pregnant so quickly after the first kid and just after discovering your husband cheating on you in the wake of giving birth to your first one? Holy hell these are some red flags that tell me she needs to get away from this dude yesterday.)
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