I hate how it feels like some people are only demonstrating healthy behaviour as like... a mating lure. Then the moment they've got a relationship nailed down, they pack those behaviours away, because what they really wanted all along was to have someone to feed off of directly.
I don't know if this is what happened to you in particular, but it just.... really feels like a Thing I've seen several friends' SOs do.
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I don't know if this is what happened to you in particular, but it just.... really feels like a Thing I've seen several friends' SOs do.