wow, Ray is totally out of line. I get that he is clearly deeply damaged and sad and scared, and probably being punished by his parents, but none of that is any excuse for damaging the LW like this. In fact, in this day and age, that is the kind of story that can make an angry keyboard warrior decide to bring holy hell down on the LW, and they should absolutely be making sure the truth is known. I honor and respect them for trying to protect Ray during the process, but they need to take care of themselves as well.