Am I the only one who'd be way more concerned that my boyfriend apparently expected me to be okay with being left alone in someone else's home with a man I barely knew?
Not being snarky, but I don't see where in the letter it says that. It says the boyfriend relayed his friend's plan but not what he thought about it. It also says he understood and agreed with LW when she objected.
Maybe it would have been better had the boyfriend immediately objected to the plan instead of making LW do it, but asking LW her opinion first doesn't seem like a red flag. I could see myself thinking, "well that seems weird, but it's important to friend, so let me see what my wife thinks." He's supporting LW now, and as long as he continues to do so, that's what matters, right?
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Not being snarky, but I don't see where in the letter it says that. It says the boyfriend relayed his friend's plan but not what he thought about it. It also says he understood and agreed with LW when she objected.
Maybe it would have been better had the boyfriend immediately objected to the plan instead of making LW do it, but asking LW her opinion first doesn't seem like a red flag. I could see myself thinking, "well that seems weird, but it's important to friend, so let me see what my wife thinks." He's supporting LW now, and as long as he continues to do so, that's what matters, right?