Yes. Seriously, there are so many people on Arcamax chiding the LW for not speaking up then, and it is burning a hole in my gut. I mean, I would love to say that I would speak up, loudly, right away! but I would find that hard enough if I were just out with a friend and her husband for a simple dinner (a childhood full of being told I was too forward and made too big a deal out of things is taking a lifetime to undo). But in that situation? When we're celebrating her surviving cancer? That's an awful lot of situational pressure to smile and squirm away silently, which I'm sure the groper took full advantage of.