lilysea: Serious (Indignant)
Lilysea ([personal profile] lilysea) wrote in [community profile] agonyaunt 2017-10-19 08:05 am (UTC)

I totally disagree with the advice.

"He said they weren’t necessarily dressed in a sexy way" - so what is the issue?

I think the parent should have told creepy man "if adult men find my teenage daughter and her friends sexually attractive, the fault is with the adult men, not my teenager daughter and her friends."

And asking creepy-man to keep an eye out and report back? NOPE NOPE NOPE NOPE NOPE.

a) I would not be at all surprised if creepy man is a predator;

b) you should not be trying to make your teenage daughter(s) and her friend(s) feel even MORE unsafe and self-conscious and paranoid as they navigate around in the world.


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