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conuly ([personal profile] conuly) wrote in [community profile] agonyaunt2026-04-23 11:00 pm

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DEAR ABBY: I have conflicting feelings regarding Valentine's Day. I believe it is a celebration for couples rather than co-workers. My husband's office staff (eight young women under the age of 30) insist on celebrating Valentine's Day with decorations on all office doors, complete with hearts and cupids. They have a catered lunch with specialty treats of chocolate-covered strawberries, fudge hearts and the customary heart candies that read "Be Mine," "I Love You", etc.

My husband has been with this company for 30 years, and we've been together for 15 of them, but this Valentine's Day celebration began only four years ago. I am 65 and have worked 20-plus years for a Fortune 500 corporate office and NEVER has Valentine's Day been celebrated in the office. Christmas, yes. Fourth of July, yes. But Valentine's Day? Am I just old and cranky? This has been a source of contention between my husband and me since it began. -- NOT LOVIN' THAT IN TEXAS


DEAR NOT LOVIN': I have heard of some people loving their jobs; perhaps this is their way of showing it. It may also be the employer's way of showing appreciation for their (largely female) support staff. Unless you have gotten a "whiff" that there is more than that going on, let it ride.

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