That's true, but I think that falls under "something is very wrong with your marriage" to me. In the five minutes or even six hours after something like this happens, not wanting to leave your husband with your kids ever again is a response even the most well-adjusted person with the best husband might have; if you're still ruminating to this level days later, and if the focus is still your husband rather than how terrifying it is to be a parent generally, then something needs fixed.