I'm married to someone whose abusive father I never met. As far as we know, said father never found out that his only child was married, nor knew what state we lived in, nor knew of the existence of his grandchildren. This has never troubled me one bit. I'm pretty sure that if I had ever once suggested to my spouse that he get back in touch with his father, I would not now be married to him.
Leave people who leave their abusive families THE FUCK ALONE. They made their choices and you can either respect it or join the ranks of their abusers.
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I'm married to someone whose abusive father I never met. As far as we know, said father never found out that his only child was married, nor knew what state we lived in, nor knew of the existence of his grandchildren. This has never troubled me one bit. I'm pretty sure that if I had ever once suggested to my spouse that he get back in touch with his father, I would not now be married to him.
Leave people who leave their abusive families THE FUCK ALONE. They made their choices and you can either respect it or join the ranks of their abusers.