I mean. Even in situations with a good commentariat, which I am told AAM has, there are things where the commentariat will not mesh with your perspective.

And this is a thing which has actually materially harmed you in the past and for that matter now.

So: discussions of crying at work/women crying at work: a Problem for you. Also, for me, because it infuriates me that people are so casually dismissive and... Everything. Which is why I was trying to focus on the positive outcome, not the commentariat fulfilling my expectations of them. (Alas.)

Because Susie Is Right, Darnit.