This is the kind of situation where I feel, for lack of a better term, hopelessly neurotypical. My first reaction is, "I have deal with a half dozen Pauls before; he's a sexist jerk, maybe even a missing stair, and no one has time for this bullshit". Which is exactly why I posted this here: I hope I can get some perspectives that crack my first reaction open and let me see this situation in a more productive way for any other Pauls I might have to work with.