I mean, I do my very best to be sex-positive; I even keep a couple of doses of Plan B around with the idea that I will regularly check to see if they're gone, and if they are, I will replace them, no questions asked (the teenager's friends think it's swell of me to keep it for them, which is basically what I'm doing at this point). But I'd be lying if I said it isn't easier to be sex-positive when I know that sex isn't going to make me a grandmother too soon.