What's with the people who date one or two people and generalize, though? That's very odd to me. Like, if he didn't like cats, I don't think she'd say, "IS THIS WHAT MEN ARE LIKE NOW?" because...some men like cats, some men don't like cats, people of other genders also have varying attitudes toward cats? right? yes? It's not like we each get a gender memo that says that on Wednesdays we wear pink and foreplay is off the table.