Nothing listed here was actually offensive, merely tedious.

I know! And the only solution they have is "Welp, time to break them up!" - like, nobody has considered asking her to spend a little less time talking about people who aren't present and nobody in the room knows?

Jumping to "she's bossy!" is just defensive name-calling.

It's also neatly hypocritical, because people who constantly show up at your house and demand you drop all other plans in order to give them your attention certainly are the ones most people would say are bossing you around.