Yeah. Also it worries me when I see people trying to leverage OCD or perfectionism to do a task better. Even if they do do it really well, they may be harming themselves unduly in the process. A clean house is never worth spiraling anxiety or whatever.

Figuring out what's different standards, what's different training, what's different gender expectations, and what's different brain chemistry is kind of a lot. And of course all those are intertwined.