Seriously, the LW sounds so arrogant. "My way is the only legit way! Tell everyone else they're wrong for me!"
Also, nowadays brides don't always take their husbands' last names. Sometimes they keep their maiden names, or even combine his and her last names into a hyphenate one.
Like:
Julie Burns and John Miller
become
Mr. & Mrs. Burns-Miller.
or they stay as
Mr. Miller and Ms. Burns
That's totally a thing too.
(And personally, I actually like putting names in alphabetical order, when I'm addressing people formally. Best way to avoid the appearance of favouritism.)
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Seriously, the LW sounds so arrogant. "My way is the only legit way! Tell everyone else they're wrong for me!"
Also, nowadays brides don't always take their husbands' last names. Sometimes they keep their maiden names, or even combine his and her last names into a hyphenate one.
Like:
Julie Burns and John Miller
become
Mr. & Mrs. Burns-Miller.
or they stay as
Mr. Miller and Ms. Burns
That's totally a thing too.
(And personally, I actually like putting names in alphabetical order, when I'm addressing people formally. Best way to avoid the appearance of favouritism.)