If I had immigrated to [the US? she doesn't say, but probably] from a non-white culture as a young adult and was taking my children to my homeland for the first time, and was then told by my child that it wasn't worth taking her there because she wouldn't enjoy it, I would blow the hell up too. The food stuff seems to be where everyone's rage is centred, but it feels to me that both parent and child are fighting over that because it's easier to fight over it, rather than a bigger thing.