ngl I struggle to understand how LW can have "a wonderful relationship" with her grandma in these circumstances. My grandparents used to make negative comments about my body when I was a kid and my opinions and feelings towards them are... rather unkind, to put it some way. And none of the things they ever said was as fucked up as what this woman said, like I'm not judging LW but I genuinely can't process that she loves her still