This reminds me of the people who lost parents early who have responded to my and others’ tales of being abused as children with “at least you have parents. How dare you not talk to them you ungrateful person”. ( this is fortunately a very small minority)

LW. I’m not going to say Cut Grandma Off but I do t recommend going on a trip with her when she can spend day and night pouring poison in your ear. Not caring what someone close to to you says when they verbally abuse you isn’t just hard but impossible.