Hey fretful LW: the world is not safe. But for every Adrienne Shelley literally thousands of women are killed by their husbands, and these proportions also hold for children. Also, we know who you demographically mean when you cite "gardeners and delivery people." Pfht.

Speaking of husbands, do you mean to imply that your daughter's husband has her under his thumb or are you just annoyed that she agrees with him?