"Our first grandchild" in a situation that's rather similar to mine with 3 miscarriages needing abortion care first: my mom didn't want to tell me she had stomach cancer because she was afraid of the stress affecting my health six months pregnant. I'm the oldest, sibs convinced her that if I wasn't told THAT would be a bigger stressor if she suddenly died.
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"Our first grandchild" in a situation that's rather similar to mine with 3 miscarriages needing abortion care first: my mom didn't want to tell me she had stomach cancer because she was afraid of the stress affecting my health six months pregnant. I'm the oldest, sibs convinced her that if I wasn't told THAT would be a bigger stressor if she suddenly died.