Yeah, same here. I mean, I can't imagine asking someone not to wear them just to attend the wedding (being in the party, maybe, but even then, I don't think I would). OTOH, since the bride has asked, it seems iffy to wear them anyway. On still another hand, I'm trying to imagine how I'd feel if someone asked me not to wear any of my turtle jewelry. I actually do feel kind of vulnerable without it anymore. So yeah, mixed feelings.