Sorry, I was mostly aiming that "everyone involved" at Husband and Pru and Pru's editors, because I was very angry (although re-reading it now, even Pru's answer isn't quite as bad as I remember it being, I think I was reading Pru's "very real illness" to mean Husband's hypochondria when on re-read they are probably more on LW's side.) That Husband thinks his letter justified himself at all is just. More reason she should leave him.

You all weren't directly involved! I didn't mean you!