Things that "the family knows he did not commit" tend to be sexual abuse-related in nature, and that's a prime age for it, and this LW is *totally* taking sides, so I am *already* not feeling charitable toward her.
And then she goes and does the usual bullshit "how do we make them tallllllllk??" thing.
Don't. They need space. Cope with having two holidays. Deal. Also, they should get into therapy, but don't tell them that til you've had some. (And, I finally read Annie's response, which isn't actually all that bad. Wotta concept.)
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Things that "the family knows he did not commit" tend to be sexual abuse-related in nature, and that's a prime age for it, and this LW is *totally* taking sides, so I am *already* not feeling charitable toward her.
And then she goes and does the usual bullshit "how do we make them tallllllllk??" thing.
Don't. They need space. Cope with having two holidays. Deal. Also, they should get into therapy, but don't tell them that til you've had some. (And, I finally read Annie's response, which isn't actually all that bad. Wotta concept.)