Look, I'm sorry that this hit a nerve with you. The boo hoo comment was referring to the person I originally replied to, who was very much framing it as this poor little rich girl scenario.

But I also do stand by my original comment that simple things like washing dishes, which the LW says she doesn't do, are not in fact, difficult to do, even if you have never done them before. I think it's highly unlikely that she can't figure out how to do it.