Yeah, I agree about the red flags. Also, she is pregnant right now, and even a relatively easy pregnancy can involve stuff like being super tired, sensitive to strong odors (such as cleaning products), etc. Even if it is an ongoing problem that she's not doing her share, this doesn't seem like the greatest time to bring it up. I mean, this is the kind of thing you really ideally work on before you get married at all. And how much is he displacing worry about the way their lives are going to be upended by having a baby, and possibly resentment if she's not feeling like having sex as often, onto the business of housekeeping?