Please help me not hate the LW. Especially since snoring is often correlated with size (or maybe I'm just overidentifying with Sasha since I'm fat and I know I snore) but having my assigned roommate hassle me IN PUBLIC about my snoring and nag me repeatedly about getting a sleep study would make me want to push back. Especially the public humiliation. (LW maybe everyone "takes her side" because they watched you use a party as a chance to shame her, and they cringed. Do you want them to all drive her into the woods for your sake? Probably, actually.)
because some of my emails were written under duress—I am falling apart I’m so tired and angry—she’s shared them with our roommates and now I’m the bad guy. Whatever, LW, in irae veritas. I can just imagine what was in those letters. I hope LW can get a new room for Sasha's sake, really.
The one thing I would advise Sasha is to not use the phone in bed, not because of Sleep Hygiene (TM) but because that kind of light in the darkness can disrupt the sleep of the other(s) in the room. Otherwise I'd mostly commiserate with her.
(I spent 8 years in dorms, so I do know the pain of having others' actions prevent one from sleeping. But I also know how people use that as a reason to bully depricated people such as fat women)
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because some of my emails were written under duress—I am falling apart I’m so tired and angry—she’s shared them with our roommates and now I’m the bad guy. Whatever, LW, in irae veritas. I can just imagine what was in those letters. I hope LW can get a new room for Sasha's sake, really.
The one thing I would advise Sasha is to not use the phone in bed, not because of Sleep Hygiene (TM) but because that kind of light in the darkness can disrupt the sleep of the other(s) in the room. Otherwise I'd mostly commiserate with her.
(I spent 8 years in dorms, so I do know the pain of having others' actions prevent one from sleeping. But I also know how people use that as a reason to bully depricated people such as fat women)