Jesus Fuck, Amy, are you hoping to be invited to this poor woman's funeral?

Dude, you do nor own your wife and your chest-beating response is indeed mortifying. Also don't listen to Amy. If your wife were planning a dalliance she wouldn't've told you about this, and she was gentle with the obnoxious guy because so many men (ahem!) fly off the handle.

Dear wife: I am so, so sorry. I wish you all luck and hope your husband sees sense.