I feel for the LW here. We used to live in a location where my bus to work took 30 minutes, but spouse's involved 2 or 3 busses (depending on which line arrived first) and took a minimum of 90 minutes. One of his coworkers, who owned a car, moved a few blocks from us and started giving him a lift to work in exchange for splitting the gas money -- it was a 10 minute drive.
If we'd had a small kid at the time and he'd chosen to bus when the ride was available, I would have been.........let's go with Extremely Not OK With That.
Husband is making trash choices that unfairly impact the LW. But Annie's answer is trash as well. A more serious discussion is called for (is this something husband can do 2x a week instead of every day? is it possible to move somewhere that makes mass transit or biking a more reasonable choice? etc)
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If we'd had a small kid at the time and he'd chosen to bus when the ride was available, I would have been.........let's go with Extremely Not OK With That.
Husband is making trash choices that unfairly impact the LW. But Annie's answer is trash as well. A more serious discussion is called for (is this something husband can do 2x a week instead of every day? is it possible to move somewhere that makes mass transit or biking a more reasonable choice? etc)