why is the advice to inundate LW's daughter with literature (which 100% she won't read lmao) vs having a conversation about her changing beliefs - when+why this happened. I think LW needs to take the long view here, explain her beliefs & system and just continually engage her daughter. People generally don't back down when challenged outright, but it's pretty common to get 'hey, I thought about what you said and...'
i think the boyfriend issue is complicated but the answer to not letting yourself be defined by hour partner shouldn't be letting yourself be defined by your parents.
idk when i was a teenager, i was briefly pro-death penalty bc i was mad at the Catholic church. It didn't take too long to self-correct. I'd keep an eye on the relationship & also maybe be aware of if she's being radicalized? but mostly i think just trying to keep her trust and knowing that when shit goes wrong with the bf or she's tired of his nonsense, her family has her back.
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i think the boyfriend issue is complicated but the answer to not letting yourself be defined by hour partner shouldn't be letting yourself be defined by your parents.
idk when i was a teenager, i was briefly pro-death penalty bc i was mad at the Catholic church. It didn't take too long to self-correct. I'd keep an eye on the relationship & also maybe be aware of if she's being radicalized? but mostly i think just trying to keep her trust and knowing that when shit goes wrong with the bf or she's tired of his nonsense, her family has her back.