. . . I am slightly bemused by the entire, like . . . *waves hand* everything here?
Like it does not seem to me all that either remarkable or fraught to go "hey you know when you were blond for [thing]? That was really, really hot and I am a big fan of you going blonde again if you ever want to."
This seems fairly straight forward. Then girlfriend decides whether or not that seems worth it to her, and everyone moves on with their lives?
So LW's treating it as "asking her to go blonde for me" and Abby's treating it like this is THE BIGGEST DEMAND EVER are both very odd to me. I dunno, maybe I'm weird.
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Like it does not seem to me all that either remarkable or fraught to go "hey you know when you were blond for [thing]? That was really, really hot and I am a big fan of you going blonde again if you ever want to."
This seems fairly straight forward. Then girlfriend decides whether or not that seems worth it to her, and everyone moves on with their lives?
So LW's treating it as "asking her to go blonde for me" and Abby's treating it like this is THE BIGGEST DEMAND EVER are both very odd to me. I dunno, maybe I'm weird.