Whatever the statutory situation, parents rightly think they should have a central place in shaping the context of their offsprings’ sexual development.
That "central place in shaping the context of their offsprings' sexual development" is earned, not included by default with the "congrats you combined gametes with another human!" starter pack.
The girlfriend’s mother is entitled to know what’s going on.
No, she isn't. She is especially not entitled to know what's going on if it would make her feel entitled to abuse her daughter.
And you’ll have to consult with the girlfriend [about narcing her out to her mom] too. You don’t need her consent, but she’s entitled to fair notice; she might want to be the one to do the telling. These are all tough things to have to deal with.
YES YOU FUCKING DO NEED HER CONSENT TO TELL HER MOTHER. OH MY ENTIRE FUCKING GOD, WHAT THE FUCK, WHAT THE ENTIRE FUCK.
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That "central place in shaping the context of their offsprings' sexual development" is earned, not included by default with the "congrats you combined gametes with another human!" starter pack.
No, she isn't. She is especially not entitled to know what's going on if it would make her feel entitled to abuse her daughter.
YES YOU FUCKING DO NEED HER CONSENT TO TELL HER MOTHER. OH MY ENTIRE FUCKING GOD, WHAT THE FUCK, WHAT THE ENTIRE FUCK.